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jonnylingosnoscythe wrote:
I have to say, knowing as little as I do, I agree with the decision. They have removed football as a factor in Harvey's repentance process.
This is a young man who has been down the road before. If the violation is what most suspect, this will be Harvey's second rodeo with this problem. That is why I have suspected from day one that he would not return...the second time around is a bit sterner.
Now, when Harvey goes to talk to his bishop, he isn't trying to rush the process simply to get back into school and back onto the field.
Keep in mind that BYU has left the door open for him to come back in the Winter and finish his degree then, and with as few credits as he needs, one semester will do the trick as far as education goes.
I agree with the punishment because (a) he broke a promise he made, and (b) it is putting his eternal future ahead of the next few years.
I know the naysayers will come on here and lambast the Honor Code as being too strict or asking more than the commandments, but that is something Harvey and each person agreeing to the Honor Code should have taken into consideration before they told their ecclesiastical representative that the would keep the Honor Code rather than lamely offering it as an excuse after the fact. If it's too much or too strict, wear red.
The fact that someone might miss out on career opportunities because of a punishment they agreed to be subject to shouldn't be part of the calculus in imposing punishment--it should be part of the decision making calculus of the individual before they break their agreement. Harvey knew the risks, but he made bad decisions nonetheless. He shouldn't be able to hide behind the potential he has put in jeopardy to avoid the consequences he knew would follow.
I was waiting for this arugment. I think you miss the point. Your statements have to do with his salvation and well being. that should be church related and related to how the church deal with it in terms of his membership. whether his disfellowed, excommunicted, put on informal probation, etc. His salvation is more of an issue with his church membership.
Nobody disputes that these guys knew what they were agreeing to when they signed up. nobody disputes that he should be punished. At least for me, what I am saying is that the punishment in terms of byu, the school and his enrollment and ability to play football should not be taken away the way it was in terms of what he did. while i don't disagree with punishment and disagree with the DEGREE in which is was imposed. I just think its too harsh. that is just my opinion.
While I am disappointed, I understand why the school made the decision it did, especially if he didn't want to get married to her. From a pr standpoint at the very least it won't look good if they let him in while his girlfriend that he refuses to marry is walking around carrying his baby. it just doesn't mesh with byu and the honor code we have. i get it. I think once I heard that it made more sense to me why byu did what they did.
its a shame.

